17 Laws To Live By (If You Want Zero Shocks In Life)
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Life's no rehearsal.
You only have one shot at a life situation.
Then what?
Situation changes.
Time changes.
Opportunity changes.
Energy changes.
It’s true that life gives you chances.
But, the quality of chances changes too.
You mess up one time. You lose your chance.
After decades of chasing dreams, tripping over hurdles, and facing the kind of challenges that would make Sisyphus sympathize, I've stumbled upon a truth:
“Simplicity is key.”
I've distilled this wisdom into 17 Laws.
Laws - that are so straightforward, they might just make your life a cakewalk.
Or at least, less of a tightrope over a pit of alligators.
1) The Law of Small Wins
Start every day with a small, manageable task you can complete within minutes.
This isn't just about making your bed or brewing coffee.
It's about setting a tone of accomplishment that cascades into bigger wins throughout the day.
2) The Law of Rejection Inoculation
Seek out rejection regularly.
Sounds counterintuitive, right?
But it’s like a vaccine.
Small doses of rejection can build your immunity to fear and failure, making you bolder and more resilient.
3) The Law of Intentional Ignorance
Not every piece of information deserves your attention.
Be selective.
In a world drowning in data, knowing what to ignore is as crucial as knowing what to focus on.
This isn’t about being uninformed.
It’s about being selectively knowledgeable.
4) The Law of No Zero Days
Commit to doing something every day that moves you toward your goals, no matter how small.
Even if it’s just reading a page of a relevant book or writing a single email.
Consistency, no matter how minimal, is key.
5) The Law of Elastic Failure
View each failure as a stretch, not a break.
Each setback expands your capacity and resilience, much like a rubber band stretching.
You don’t break; you become more flexible and durable.
6) The Law of Energy Accounting
Treat your energy like a currency.
Spend it wisely and know when to save.
This means recognizing which activities drain you and which invigorate you, and adjusting your day accordingly.
7) The Law of Purposeful Discomfort
Embrace discomfort deliberately.
Be it waking up an hour earlier or trying a new activity that scares you.
Comfort is the enemy of growth.
Every time you try something new, you’re creating new pathways in your brain.
8) The Law of Intentional Obsolescence
Make your current skills redundant every couple of years.
The world changes rapidly; what works today may not work tomorrow.
Keep learning and evolving.
9) The Law of Relational Investment
Invest in relationships like you would in stocks – looking for long-term value, not short-term gains.
The right relationships can be the bedrock of both personal joy and professional success.
10) The Law of Structured Wanderlust
Allow yourself scheduled times to wander, both literally and figuratively.
This isn’t aimless meandering but a purposeful exploration to stimulate creativity and new perspectives.
11) The Law of Narrative Control
Understand that the stories you tell yourself shape your reality.
Reframe narratives that hold you back.
A shift in perspective can often unblock paths to success and happiness.
12) The Law of Constructive Solitude
Solitude isn’t loneliness.
It's a powerful state for self-reflection and growth.
Schedule regular intervals of solitude to think, plan, and dream.
13) The Law of Experiential Diversity
Seek varied experiences, not just achievements.
Diverse experiences broaden your understanding of the world, making you more adaptable and innovative.
14) The Law of Strategic Laziness
Sometimes, the best action is inaction.
Knowing when to step back and let things unfold can save energy and open unexpected opportunities.
15) The Law of Reciprocal Learning
Teach to learn.
Sharing knowledge not only helps others but also reinforces and expands your own understanding.
16) The Law of Deferred Gratification
The ability to delay gratification is a cornerstone of long-term success.
Embrace short-term discomfort for long-term gains.
17) The Law of Mindful Consumption
Be it food, media, or ideas, what you consume shapes your health, thoughts, and attitudes.
Consume mindfully to cultivate a healthier, more positive life.
You become what you consume.
An easy life isn’t about avoiding challenges.
It’s about handling them with wisdom, resilience, and a bit of preparedness.
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